Condoms Are Non-Negotiable: Why Health and Life Come Before Casual Pleasure
Without a condom, vaginal and anal sex carry risks that go far beyond an unplanned pregnancy, especially in casual or professional contexts. Using physical barriers is vital for one simple reason: prophylactic medications do not protect your body against everything. PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis) is excellent at what it does: preventing HIV infection. However, it acts […]
Beyond Penetration: The Mind, Psychoanalysis, and the Freedom of Sexual Fantasies
For centuries, Western society viewed sex through a strictly reproductive lens. Heavily influenced by Christian morality, sexuality was granted a single acceptable function: a man penetrates, ejaculates, impregnates a woman, and creates children. Anything outside this equation—penis-in-vagina sex aimed purely at procreation—was looked down upon, repressed, and labelled as sinful or unnatural. For a long […]
The Evolution of Paid Companionship: Knowledge and Pleasure Through the Ages
To look at the modern market of paid companionship without understanding the past is to see merely the surface of one of humanity’s oldest dynamics. Since antiquity, the woman who commercialises access to her body and her time has assumed various institutional roles, orbiting power, religion, and culture. In Ancient Mesopotamia, for instance, sacred prostitution […]
Professional Sex vs. Sex with Feeling: What happens in our brain?
Many people ask me, given the nature of my profession, if sex becomes mechanical or if it is possible to “feel something” genuinely during a booking. As a student of neuroscience, I see that the answer lies in our brain’s incredible ability to differentiate contexts. Pleasure is not an “on and off” switch; it is […]
Beyond the Click: How Screen Overstimulation Is Disconnecting Male Desire
Today, the topic is a silent crisis. Have you ever felt that your mind is in one place, while your body is somewhere else? If you perceive that, even at the peak of vitality, your body does not seem to respond as before during intimacy, know that the explanation could be right in the palm […]
Virtual Sex and Liquid Relationships: The Impact of the Digital Era
The shift towards digital environments, intensified after the pandemic, has brought about what the sociologist Zygmunt Bauman termed “liquid modernity”: relationships that slip through one’s fingers, marked by fragility and a lack of substance. Today, virtual sex and screen-based interactions often replace real encounters, prioritising convenience and instant gratification. We live in an age where […]
Love and Sex in Later Life: Reinventing Pleasure
We must, once and for all, dismantle the myth that sexuality and desire have an expiry date. I observe in some clients a natural apprehension regarding the onset of maturity, but what actually occurs is a transformation: we move away from the almost mechanical urgency of youth into a phase where intimacy, touch, and time […]
The Pleasure Machine: What Happens in the Brain During Orgasm?
Today, I would like to talk to you about a moment that everyone pursues, but few truly understand how it works “under the hood”: the orgasm.Quite often, we focus so much on the mechanics of sex that we forget that the most important sexual organ isn’t between our legs, but between our ears. The brain […]
Beyond Discomfort: The Real Impact of Phimosis on Health and Desire
A physical issue with silent roots. Many men believe that living with a foreskin that permanently covers the glans is “just the way they are”. However, as a professional in this field, and with the experience I have gathered both in Brazil and abroad, I can state clearly: phimosis is a dysfunction that drastically affects […]
The Invention of Hysteria: What History Conceals About Female Desire
Today, I would like to talk to you about one of the most intriguing chapters in the history of medicine and psychology: Hysteria. If you have ever heard someone casually label a woman as “hysterical,” you need to know that the origin of this term reveals a great deal about how society attempted to control […]